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Posted by: Sassyfrass
« on: August 21, 2019, 09:50:37 pm »

I've just been busy dealing with my parents estate still, hubby's medical issues,  and trying to find a place to move to on the Northern Oregon Coast.

We can't close on my parents estate yet as there are still issues relating to the accident.

We are still waiting on an appointment for a cognitive evaluation for my husband.

And I think we found an apt on the coast, we are discussing it now and deciding if we want to apply or not. Things are getting seriously bad here at home, so Hubby and I are going to get out.


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Posted by: Dalmatian_Plantation
« on: July 25, 2019, 10:57:59 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Yeah but I finally managed to find where sister was and she wants me to move in with her so they can help me get back on my feet. It's better than being right by myself struggling to keep my head above water.

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True. Hopefully this will help.
Thanks. I hope so too. I have felt so alone, like I'm drowning and people keep throwing rocks at me. It's hard to be an adult when you never got to be a kid. My father had absolute control over me my entire life. He controlled all of my choices, controlled everything I said and did, and wouldn't even let me think about my future because he decided my future was living with him and producing more victims for him. Now I'm on my own and it's lonely.

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At the risk of sounding insensitive. I think once you move in with your sister, you should seek major counseling. Maybe both of you together.  Many offices offer sliding scales if payment is a problem. Some will let you flat out go for free.

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That's the plan. One of the benefits of moving in with my sister is that I won't have to work 2 jobs just to barely pay the bills. I'll have more time to seek counseling. She has a place near where she lives that saw her and her daughter for free when she moved up there. She suffered a lot of abuse too so she had a lot of crap to get through. She said they really helped her so that's the plan for me and the girls. She said they have therapist for adults, kids, and families.
Posted by: Coffeechoco12
« on: July 22, 2019, 12:42:30 am »

Iíve been browsing but not contributing lately. Iíve been battling depression again and weíre playing medication roulette for my bipolar. Somehow my last pregnancy caused some weird switch in my body and I became allergic to my mood stabilizer. So thatís been such a fun year and a half.

Then add in buttload of kids, father in laws accident, working part time for our company. Iím exhausted 🙂
Posted by: PiscesFishy
« on: July 17, 2019, 09:14:08 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Yeah but I finally managed to find where sister was and she wants me to move in with her so they can help me get back on my feet. It's better than being right by myself struggling to keep my head above water.

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True. Hopefully this will help.
Thanks. I hope so too. I have felt so alone, like I'm drowning and people keep throwing rocks at me. It's hard to be an adult when you never got to be a kid. My father had absolute control over me my entire life. He controlled all of my choices, controlled everything I said and did, and wouldn't even let me think about my future because he decided my future was living with him and producing more victims for him. Now I'm on my own and it's lonely.

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At the risk of sounding insensitive. I think once you move in with your sister, you should seek major counseling. Maybe both of you together.  Many offices offer sliding scales if payment is a problem. Some will let you flat out go for free.

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Posted by: Dalmatian_Plantation
« on: July 17, 2019, 08:07:56 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Yeah but I finally managed to find where sister was and she wants me to move in with her so they can help me get back on my feet. It's better than being right by myself struggling to keep my head above water.

Sent from my LM-Q710.FG using Tapatalk

True. Hopefully this will help.
Thanks. I hope so too. I have felt so alone, like I'm drowning and people keep throwing rocks at me. It's hard to be an adult when you never got to be a kid. My father had absolute control over me my entire life. He controlled all of my choices, controlled everything I said and did, and wouldn't even let me think about my future because he decided my future was living with him and producing more victims for him. Now I'm on my own and it's lonely.

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Posted by: Shadow_lark
« on: July 15, 2019, 08:48:08 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Yeah but I finally managed to find where sister was and she wants me to move in with her so they can help me get back on my feet. It's better than being right by myself struggling to keep my head above water.

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True. Hopefully this will help.
Posted by: Shadow_lark
« on: July 15, 2019, 08:47:04 pm »

Working my ass off as of late. Have to get up in the middle of the night, so I can start work at 5am. At least we get off around 1-2 pm.

Dh works a schedule close to that. I don't know how he can handle it. I fall naturally on an opposite schedule, so I usually end up going to bed just a couple of hours before he gets up, if not around the same time.


It's rough on the sleep schedule, but an easy job to do. Think it will last only another 3 weeks. Who knows, they might want us to do it for longer. Which I wouldn't turn down.

If it works for you, then why not?
Posted by: Dalmatian_Plantation
« on: July 15, 2019, 09:40:49 am »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Yeah but I finally managed to find where sister was and she wants me to move in with her so they can help me get back on my feet. It's better than being right by myself struggling to keep my head above water.

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Posted by: MistressMonster
« on: July 14, 2019, 06:54:49 pm »

Working my ass off as of late. Have to get up in the middle of the night, so I can start work at 5am. At least we get off around 1-2 pm.

Dh works a schedule close to that. I don't know how he can handle it. I fall naturally on an opposite schedule, so I usually end up going to bed just a couple of hours before he gets up, if not around the same time.


It's rough on the sleep schedule, but an easy job to do. Think it will last only another 3 weeks. Who knows, they might want us to do it for longer. Which I wouldn't turn down.
Posted by: Shadow_lark
« on: July 13, 2019, 10:58:43 pm »

Working my ass off as of late. Have to get up in the middle of the night, so I can start work at 5am. At least we get off around 1-2 pm.

Dh works a schedule close to that. I don't know how he can handle it. I fall naturally on an opposite schedule, so I usually end up going to bed just a couple of hours before he gets up, if not around the same time.
Posted by: MistressMonster
« on: July 12, 2019, 09:17:43 pm »

Working my ass off as of late. Have to get up in the middle of the night, so I can start work at 5am. At least we get off around 1-2 pm.
Posted by: Shadow_lark
« on: July 12, 2019, 12:11:55 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.

Didnt you move just a few months ago?
Posted by: Dalmatian_Plantation
« on: July 11, 2019, 11:21:07 pm »

I've been busy. My sister and her family were here for a week, then I spent a week with them in Michigan, and now I'm getting ready to move again.
Posted by: Shadow_lark
« on: July 10, 2019, 03:51:01 pm »

We had a huge family gathering the week of the 4th. All but one guest is gone but now I I'm just trying to recuperate and clean. LOL

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Lol, I can understand that. Hosting takes a lot of energy
I got really lucky and nobody actually stayed at my house. My in-laws live 3 houses away, BIL across from them and one of my SILs is just about 2 minutes down the road. We all gather at MIL's because they have a pool but my SIL and I do all of the cooking and party planning.

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That is really nice. It gives you space, but you're still close enough to gather easily.
Posted by: bmw29
« on: July 10, 2019, 02:26:13 pm »

We had a huge family gathering the week of the 4th. All but one guest is gone but now I I'm just trying to recuperate and clean. LOL

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Lol, I can understand that. Hosting takes a lot of energy
I got really lucky and nobody actually stayed at my house. My in-laws live 3 houses away, BIL across from them and one of my SILs is just about 2 minutes down the road. We all gather at MIL's because they have a pool but my SIL and I do all of the cooking and party planning.

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