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Author Topic: You can't fix stupid!  (Read 187 times)

anonymous

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You can't fix stupid!
« on: March 13, 2019, 06:35:54 am »
4 kids, 4 dads, pregnant with 5th. The other 4 have been removed from her care. I hope the new baby is taken at birth. I am the caseworker and will recommend the baby goes immediately into DSS custody. Sterilization is needed in a case like this.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #1 on: March 13, 2019, 10:12:56 am »
Why were the other kids removed?
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Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #2 on: March 13, 2019, 07:14:05 pm »
Why were the other kids removed?

Upon inspection of the home there was no food, no working toilet/bath, trash and feces covering the floor. All the kids were dirty and hungry. The oldest kid is in school and told his teacher he was hungry. She asked why he was dirty and he told her. CPS was sent to investigate and we removed the children immediately. The mother is 7 months pregnant and I will recommend that the baby go into DSS custody immediately.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #3 on: March 13, 2019, 07:31:20 pm »
First you said DSS, then you said CPS which is it?

Caseworkers know better than to post their opinions on any clients, whether or not they directly identify the client. Well the caseworkers I supervise know better than to post anything remotely close to a personal opinion on social media.

I realize that the job can be difficult and it can drain you but as someone who has been doing it for 30 years it is not about your personal feelings it is about the legal guidelines. 
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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #4 on: March 14, 2019, 01:24:12 pm »
4 kids, 4 dads, pregnant with 5th. The other 4 have been removed from her care. I hope the new baby is taken at birth. I am the caseworker and will recommend the baby goes immediately into DSS custody. Sterilization is needed in a case like this.


Why are you discussing this in an open forum. So unprofessional.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2019, 04:47:26 pm »
She should get her pussy removed

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #6 on: March 15, 2019, 10:31:16 am »
First you said DSS, then you said CPS which is it?

Caseworkers know better than to post their opinions on any clients, whether or not they directly identify the client. Well the caseworkers I supervise know better than to post anything remotely close to a personal opinion on social media.

I realize that the job can be difficult and it can drain you but as someone who has been doing it for 30 years it is not about your personal feelings it is about the legal guidelines.

CPS is a division of DSS. I posted because I am frustrated. As for being unprofessional it is and that is the reason I posted anonymous.   

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #7 on: March 15, 2019, 12:20:40 pm »
First you said DSS, then you said CPS which is it?

Caseworkers know better than to post their opinions on any clients, whether or not they directly identify the client. Well the caseworkers I supervise know better than to post anything remotely close to a personal opinion on social media.

I realize that the job can be difficult and it can drain you but as someone who has been doing it for 30 years it is not about your personal feelings it is about the legal guidelines.

CPS is a division of DSS. I posted because I am frustrated. As for being unprofessional it is and that is the reason I posted anonymous.

Really? Which state would that be?  When my husband was active duty I worked in several states.  I have worked for the Dept of social services, the department of family services, the office of childrenís services, child protective services but never a branch of CPS inside the department of social services. Curiosity has me asking for more details. 

You know better than to allow frustration to get the best of your judgment. Take your frustration out in court. You also know that you the case worker does not have, has never had, and will never have the final say so concerning the custody of a minor. That is the courts job.  Donít confuse responsibility with power. You have a responsibility to the child not power over the child.

You know that your behavior is unprofessional, you admit as much. Itís time to consider another branch of social work that better fits you. A branch that you will find more rewarding than frustrating.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2019, 10:02:18 pm »
First you said DSS, then you said CPS which is it?

Caseworkers know better than to post their opinions on any clients, whether or not they directly identify the client. Well the caseworkers I supervise know better than to post anything remotely close to a personal opinion on social media.

I realize that the job can be difficult and it can drain you but as someone who has been doing it for 30 years it is not about your personal feelings it is about the legal guidelines.

CPS is a division of DSS. I posted because I am frustrated. As for being unprofessional it is and that is the reason I posted anonymous.

Really? Which state would that be?  When my husband was active duty I worked in several states.  I have worked for the Dept of social services, the department of family services, the office of childrenís services, child protective services but never a branch of CPS inside the department of social services. Curiosity has me asking for more details. 

You know better than to allow frustration to get the best of your judgment. Take your frustration out in court. You also know that you the case worker does not have, has never had, and will never have the final say so concerning the custody of a minor. That is the courts job.  Donít confuse responsibility with power. You have a responsibility to the child not power over the child.

You know that your behavior is unprofessional, you admit as much. Itís time to consider another branch of social work that better fits you. A branch that you will find more rewarding than frustrating.

I am considering transferring to another department. An opening in WFFA will be available in May. You are right about my frustrations. 

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #9 on: March 16, 2019, 10:58:20 pm »
Is it drugs or mental instability?

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2019, 01:27:05 pm »
No matter how frustrated you are, you should not be posting about it anywhere. Your IP address can be found easily enough should some random woman or a relative come here see the story and think "I know who that is"






A forced sterilization is not legal. I think there was a case (2005?) in Rochester, NY where a judge ordered a woman to not have anymore children and I believe it was taken to court. I'm not sure of the outcome but will look into this evening when I have a few more minutes.


Q: do you (all of you) think a forced sterilization should be enforced after a specific number of children taken due to abuse, drugs, neglect?

if you don't think, you drown.

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Re: You can't fix stupid!
« Reply #11 on: March 19, 2019, 08:54:49 pm »
First you said DSS, then you said CPS which is it?

Caseworkers know better than to post their opinions on any clients, whether or not they directly identify the client. Well the caseworkers I supervise know better than to post anything remotely close to a personal opinion on social media.

I realize that the job can be difficult and it can drain you but as someone who has been doing it for 30 years it is not about your personal feelings it is about the legal guidelines.

CPS is a division of DSS. I posted because I am frustrated. As for being unprofessional it is and that is the reason I posted anonymous.

Really? Which state would that be?  When my husband was active duty I worked in several states.  I have worked for the Dept of social services, the department of family services, the office of childrenís services, child protective services but never a branch of CPS inside the department of social services. Curiosity has me asking for more details. 

You know better than to allow frustration to get the best of your judgment. Take your frustration out in court. You also know that you the case worker does not have, has never had, and will never have the final say so concerning the custody of a minor. That is the courts job.  Donít confuse responsibility with power. You have a responsibility to the child not power over the child.

You know that your behavior is unprofessional, you admit as much. Itís time to consider another branch of social work that better fits you. A branch that you will find more rewarding than frustrating.
CPS is part of DSS in NYS.

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