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Author Topic: Too soon?  (Read 315 times)

anonymous

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Too soon?
« on: June 12, 2019, 09:41:18 am »
Our baby is 9 months old. DH and I want to go on a 5 night cruise to the Bahamas. Is it too soon for us to leave the baby with her uncle? Both our parents have passed away. She loves him.  Is it too soon to leaver her?

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2019, 10:19:43 am »
If you think he can handle her for 5 days. (Which I'm assuming is realistically 7 given travel time and all that. Correct me if I'm wrong.) Then I'd say go for it.

Have you ever gone away for the weekend?

Would taking her be out of the equation completely ?

How does she sleep without you there?



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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2019, 02:41:43 pm »
Could you have an overnight trial run before deciding on the cruise?

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #3 on: June 12, 2019, 11:55:40 pm »
We have done overnights and a couple of weekends. We want the vacation to be just us and time for relaxation. I don't think a 9 month old would enjoy a cruise.

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #4 on: June 13, 2019, 09:00:59 pm »
There is no way I would have left my daughter for 5 nights at 9 months old.  I would have had a miserable time.  I'd have taken her with us. 

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #5 on: July 22, 2019, 12:44:54 am »
I would go for it. We left our youngest for almost a week when she was only four months old. Granted she is our sixth kid so I’m like eh.

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #6 on: July 29, 2019, 06:48:04 am »
We are going on the cruise! DH's brother and his girlfriend are going to watch DD. We are leaving on August 1st and will be back on the 6th. So excited! Can't wait!

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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #7 on: August 03, 2019, 10:29:38 pm »
Totally up to you. I would t do it, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t.


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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #8 on: August 07, 2019, 01:46:39 pm »
how was your trip?
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Re: Too soon?
« Reply #9 on: August 07, 2019, 05:27:33 pm »
how was your trip?


It was great! We got home about 2 hours ago! Both of us are much better off. We needed this vacation. At beginning of the trip we decided to stay off the internet and social media. My phone worked on the ship and we called home every evening. No problems here at home. From what her uncle and his girlfriend said DD was fine and didn't seem upset at all. She did let out a squeal when she saw us! Now time to finish unpacking and wash clothes. School starts back August 26th and I go back a week earlier. Summer slow down!

 

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