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Author Topic: Really?  (Read 374 times)

bubbs

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Re: Really?
« Reply #15 on: January 12, 2019, 06:15:49 pm »
They wouldn't take the dog  but I do see your point because after the whole thing was said and done I asked myself why I was really against a live in thing.    I don't know how that works because to the pay you like $5 an hour because you live there or do you not get paid anything so I guess that's why I kind of froze.    e author=bubbs link=topic=2240.msg34367#msg34367 date=1547318562]
You know the answer.  Itís not a good idea. Keeping space between you is good.  Why didnít you do the live in nanny? If they let you bring your dog. It seemed to solve two problems at once


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You have a data entry job? Just keep that and maybe look for something cleaning offices at night.
And I donít know if your area has rooms for rent. Iíd look for one of those. And then work my tail off to save money for an efficiency apartment.  Iím not telling you to get rid of your dog, but if you can barely take care of yourself. The dog is a luxury.
And Iím saying that as someone who wants a dog... but I know Iím not ready to do that right now.


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Hockeymom87

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Re: Really?
« Reply #16 on: January 12, 2019, 06:17:07 pm »
I donít really think you should nanny. Youíre not qualified.

Myahny

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Re: Really?
« Reply #17 on: January 12, 2019, 10:00:23 pm »
I'm curious as to how you are spending your time.  You are working 15 hours or so a week (according to your other posts), that leaves a lot of time on your hands.  Have you gathered the information on filing to get assistance yet?  Have you increased your therapy sessions to deal with the stress & uncertainty in your life?  Instead of looking for a different job, have you looked for a 2nd part time job instead?  A fast food job would be perfect for your hours & get you fed on the cheap daily.   What are you doing each day to improve your situation?   

MrsPreKTeacher

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Re: Really?
« Reply #18 on: January 13, 2019, 08:15:37 am »
You wonít answer as this doesnít blow smoke but how on Earth do you think you are capable of caring for someone elseís child when you canít priperly care for yours or yourself!  That may be harsh but as a parent I am extremely picky about who is around my kids much less who I leave them in care with!  Further, if I were an employer I wouldnít respond to a craigslist ad of someone seeking employment.  If you want a job YOU need to find it, not make me find you.  Go to indeed.com and find a job.

Find an apartment.  Stop making excuses about the damn dog.  We love our dog but let me tell you if it was a choice between him and housing for our boys the boys win 100% of the time.

Finally many have asked are you still enrolled in school or have you quit.  We know the answer but want you to be honest.  Second to that, what about your data entry job?  Have you abandoned that too?  See, these are the reasons why you are still and will remain a hot mess...

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Re: Really?
« Reply #19 on: January 13, 2019, 09:19:54 am »
Why do you even post here?
I'm not being snarky, but you barely ever respond or bother to answer any questions.
You make a post(usually with some personal problem)
as you engage  as little as you possibly can and then abandon the post.
What do you get out of this?
Maybe people should ignore you in the same way you ignore them.
I don't see any benefit to the reader taking the time to give you advice or try to help you when you just ignore it.
What do you get out of posting here?
Don't worry, I won't hold my breath waiting for you to a totally answer.😒

7-Up

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Re: Really?
« Reply #20 on: January 13, 2019, 09:25:46 am »
Why do you even post here?
I'm not being snarky, but you barely ever respond or bother to answer any questions.
You make a post(usually with some personal problem)
as you engage  as little as you possibly can and then abandon the post.
What do you get out of this?
Maybe people should ignore you in the same way you ignore them.
I don't see any benefit to the reader taking the time to give you advice or try to help you when you just ignore it.
What do you get out of posting here?
Don't worry, I won't hold my breath waiting for you to a totally answer.😒
Edit:
The last sentence should have read "Don't worry, I won't hold my breath waiting for you to actually answer"

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Re: Really?
« Reply #21 on: January 13, 2019, 04:37:09 pm »
I wouldn't take the live-in nanny gig.  They're low-balling.  They should be offering at least $19 an hour, which is the national average.  And it's probably not the best job for you anyway. 

 

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