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Author Topic: Bf thinks I'm not independent  (Read 174 times)

alexsmommy51405

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Bf thinks I'm not independent
« on: June 16, 2018, 12:38:58 pm »
Financially independent, yes he knows I am. Never ask him for money but if he wants to buy me something I'm not going to refuse. He got me cookies last time.
But home maintenance independent, if that makes any sense.
It makes me laugh though cuz I know I can do all the stuff he does around the house for me (I'm pretty mechanically inclined) but why do it when I can get him to do it?
He was actually impressed with me that I thought to get my oil changed in my car.
Lol, if he only knew what all i can do by myself....

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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #1 on: June 16, 2018, 12:44:53 pm »
So do it for yourself.

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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2018, 12:45:34 pm »
Why let that bother you?

When he says it just say "oh well.  I know a great handy man"  and leave him BBC wondering what that means.



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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2018, 01:55:47 pm »
It doesn't bother me in the way it upsets me. It's more of a humorous thing. Like woah dude, slow your roll pretty sure I can handle screwing in a light bulb.

Lol, I let him do it though because I think he feels a bit unneeded by me. Everybody else in his life asks for everything and I ask for nothing but a bit of time. So if he wants to help me out by screwing in a light bulb or hanging my tv on the wall I'll let him.

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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #4 on: June 16, 2018, 04:39:32 pm »
You are a game player

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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #5 on: June 16, 2018, 05:53:40 pm »
Say
"oh honey, you're such a big strong man. How could I ever survive without you to do all those manly things for me"
and try not to laugh or barf when you say it.
if you don't think, you drown.

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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2018, 10:31:16 am »
There is a lot of stuff I am perfectly capable of doing on my own, but I ask DH to do instead. He needs to feel needed and honestly, I'd rather it be him than me that does that kind of stuff.


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Re: Bf thinks I'm not independent
« Reply #7 on: June 17, 2018, 08:59:29 pm »
It doesn't bother me in the way it upsets me. It's more of a humorous thing. Like woah dude, slow your roll pretty sure I can handle screwing in a light bulb.

Lol, I let him do it though because I think he feels a bit unneeded by me. Everybody else in his life asks for everything and I ask for nothing but a bit of time. So if he wants to help me out by screwing in a light bulb or hanging my tv on the wall I'll let him.

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Now, I want him to Hany My tv.!!

 

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